A lot has changed since I last posted here on my blog. As we all know life is unpredictable and not really always fair. No longer a married man, but now a single Daddy of 3 girls at home, and 3 grown children, a granddaughter and another on the way. Should I be meditating and concentrating on finding romance? I think so, love and belonging (Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs) is pretty important. Does that mean I am viciously hunting for my next romance? Not necessarily, though the cards seem to point to good things for the next relationship…..
Using the Romance Spread, this is what I’ve discovered:
- Is there hope of finding romance in the future?
Six of Wands: There is hope of finding romance in the future. The Six of Wands represents triumph, achievement, good news and reward. There is someone for everyone, there are more fish in the sea and all those other sayings. And this card tells me that my wish for romance is good.
- Will the new lover be similar to past lovers?
Ace of Wands: No! This card represents birth, growth and adventure. We learn from the past and we don’t hold that past to the will of others. People are different, although sometimes similar. My past relationships seemed to have all been similar… same types of people, same types of activities. This card tells me that this is all going to change and be better.
- Will the relationship feel safe and secure?
King of Pentacles: Yes, this is a king after all! A king is steady, reliable, helpful, rich both materially and spiritually. When you are the kings, you feel safe and secure!
- Will there be commitment in the relationship?
The Empress: The Empress offers good advice, safety, security – she’s building a future for herself and her family. This tells me that the person who ends up in a relationship with me will be committed to the relationship.
- Is marriage a possibility in the relationship?
DEATH: Ah, yes…. the death card. Many will read this as a negative and that marriage is not a possibility. Remember, though, that death means the end of an era, AND A NEW BEGINNING. It’s a reminder of mortality, a great change…. this tells me that marriage is a possibility, and not only is it a possibility…. it could be a new beginning for me that will also remain for the rest of my life…. until the Gods recall my mortality.
- Will the relationship be lasting and fruitful?
Three of Wands: The Three of Wands represents the ships coming in, strength, grasp of the future and things needed for growth. This card is the most appropriate card for this question. It tells me what the Death card told me… that this next relationship will be my last and will it will grow and be fruitful.
- What can be done to find true and lasting love?
Ten of Cups: The Ten of Cups tells me that I need to be content with who and what I am. I need to find peace within myself, to love myself and to be joyful. When these all come together, then I will find true and lasting love.
So, there I have it……. It’ll happen when the powers determine it should……
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